Survey:: How fast is your usual fall for love???

In my case, the falling is SO fast, I might as well not even call it falling in love. One second it can be nothing, and the next EVERYTHING....





So what about you??





Do you fall fast and hard, or slow and steady...





Btw...I had a question get deleted today, many of you gave me some INCREDIBLE answers, and I am doing all that I CAN to get it back....





As always, Thank you all for tking the time.

Survey:: How fast is your usual fall for love???
Fast and Deep


Deep in love with him


It's like I'm falling off a cliff


And somehow I know


He's at the bottom waiting to save me


He's ready to catch me when I fall


He's always been the first to call


Now its my turn to make the first move


And the first thing I'm going to do


Is tell him


"I'm falling in love with you"
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Reply:Interesting question again as always....


Well I have experienced both. With an ex it was a very slow process we went to high school together and had some classes together etc. But as you can tell by his title it didn't work out in the long run.


Now my most recent love was hard and fast and from out of nowhere. Hit me like a freight train, I swear! It is like nothing I have ever experienced ever! Like you one second nothing and the next thing everything!


So hopefully, hard and fast is the way to go! :)
Reply:i fall so fast and hard ,and crazy ,it s love ,i don t know how people could fall slowly in love ,since love come suddenly you found yourself another person ,everything changes all your life ,you cannot know when or how, suddenly you found yourself falling in love and that s what exciting about love ....love is everything ...is paradise..
Reply:I am like you - fast - so much so that I fell.


My husband was Love at First Sight - I know people don't believe that - but it was.





Still happily married after 27 years.





I answsered all your questions today, which one was deleted - none were bad or anything.......Nothing you do is bad - Oh is the one you said "Rate me" and then when you opened up the question it said "just kidden...........





Y/A monitors are so sensitive.
Reply:That's what happend to me, I think it was almost at first sight. I have been in love twice before this but this one is so different. Makes me wonder if this is the only time I have been in love. I have the butterflies in my tummy, I get warm and fuzzy and my heart skips a beat more often.


I usually fall slow and question some of the things I seem this time it is very different.
Reply:I used to be the same way, but since I've gotten older, but heart has gotten tougher and now it takes me quite a while to consider what I feel for someone 'love'. However, once I am in love, it takes a whole lot for me to fall out of it.
Reply:When i meet someone i like i start to fall in love with them slowly but not to slow and if i know i can trust them and they love me to i make sure it is as sweet as it can be just like a movie
Reply:With my current boyfriend I fell fast and hard, and I have no other times to compare it to. This is the first time I've been in love, I've been in a few relationships but I guess they werent with the right person
Reply:Fast and hard. And it usually turns out badly. lol.





I'm usually in denial about it, though. I tell everyone "No, no, it's not true" and then they point things out to me and I'm like "Crap.. that wasn't supposed to happen!"
Reply:uhmm...fast at first..but then i get steady...i get over things fast...like going over a speed bump..but some people take forever to get over something like an ocean...i like it fast tho...(ooer)...i dont' need stuff clouding my emotions up with sadness...i have better things to do. :) cheers!
Reply:hoefully a year. i dont like falling fast. i tend to analyze the situation.ive only been in love one time, and it took me a yr to realize. wouldnt have it any other way,lol. slowwwwww. and thank you for ur questions! :)
Reply:oh my gosh i don't know i think i fall in love a lot of the time but don't want to admit it
Reply:It depends, sometimes I can fall in love with someone within moments of meeting them, but then I'll hate them the next day, I'm random like that lol :]
Reply:It's been both equally though I wish it would be slow and steady but sometimes you just can't help but fall fast and hard.
Reply:really fast all the time but slowly when it really matters.


the ones that take longer turn out better.
Reply:slow and steady wins the race, although I'm not sure if it is meant to apply in this situation.
Reply:I used to fall hard and fast....


But, it's been so long now, I can hardly remember!!!


:/
Reply:I dont really take the relationship too seriously until the guy does so I wont get hurt,cuz when I fall for a guy I fall fast and HARD!!!





it kinda sucks:(
Reply:I fall very fast and very hard but I dont make my feelings known to them untill ii know they feel the same way
Reply:It happens pretty quick for me too...About as fast as Rosie O'Donnell on a jelly doughnut.
Reply:usually pretty fast.
Reply:I tend to obsess very easily.. Wouldn't develope into what I could call love until enough time has passed.
Reply:I fall fast... Then I hit the ground hard at some point... Ouch...
Reply:I believe I fall in, what I think is love, so fast. Everytime I try to take my time with a person..it just sneaks right up on me.
Reply:um slow and steady wins the race.. .i had both though... usually slow and so far no winning
Reply:Fast and hard!!! Know what I mean???
Reply:I fall in love in about a milli second. I know, its sad.
Reply:if he's what i like in a guy i fall in love fast but other than that not really easy
Reply:Hard %26amp; Fast....sometimes so fast that I don't know what hit me!
Reply:hard and fast
Reply:maybe first sight but i will seriously love her.