Poll survey -- which marriage is good love and arrange ? and why give good reasons.?

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Poll survey -- which marriage is good love and arrange ? and why give good reasons.?
Marriage should not be arranged...should be between two people who love one another naturally not forced.
Reply:this is depends on us which marriage we can do well and can go on well. both marriages are depends on mutual understanding and trust on each others and co-operation with family members.
Reply:Both can work out but I think arrange marriages might work out better since the marriage isn't just base on love and lust alone but on family and finaces.





Two people can always learn to get to know each other before marriage, and if it doesn't work, they don't have to get married.
Reply:marriage arrangemenst in my opinion are not good, but that is only my opinion and I grew up in a culture in which this is abnormal. Normal is two people finding eachother and only out of love to marry.





but in some cultures arranged marriages are normal, and sometimes even good. It depends....





I think the arrangement should not be made without the consent of both. You have to live with that other person forever... should that not be "the one" then?





I would want him to be the true one I wanted to marry... not someone chosen for me....